The last week I've had several interactions & meetings that drove me to dig out my copy of Emotionally Healthy Spirituality for a refresher.
The Scazzero book mentioned above, summed up, posits the idea that spiritual maturity & a true Christian experience can't be separated from emotional health & maturity. E.g. emotionally immature people can't/don't grow to real spiritual maturity, even though they may have many, many years logged as Christians. Scazzero states, from his own experience, that only by becoming emotionally healthy can any of us truly grow to maturity.
In my un edgy-cated opinion, based solely upon my interactions with a large cross-section of humanity, (with a varied Christian experience & length of tenure as Christians,) tends to bear out Scazzero's hypothesis. One of the things that I've also noticed is that the "ministry" seems to attract, nurture, & reward emotionally unhealthy people - in that it, the ministry, becomes a valid place for a person to 'get their strokes,' though its often at the expense of others. And in the name of God. Why is this?
I'm re-reading the book. And pondering these thoughts. And doing a lot of introspecting.